Tere Ishq Mein – At a time when we are surrounded by toxic male protagonists like Arjun Reddy, Kabir Singh, and the troubled alpha in Animal, it felt refreshing to see Aanand L Rai attempt to dissect the same trope in Tere Ishk Mein. That is, until he completely ruined it in the end.
Rai introduces us to Shankar (Dhanush), a man whose rage comes from a traumatic childhood memory: watching his mother burn to death because he couldnโt afford treatment for her burns. Heโs angry, volatile, and clearly broken.
Enter Mukti (Kriti Sanon), a PhD scholar who believes she can erase anger from the human psyche through a clinical, experimental method. So, naturally, she chooses Shankar as her subjectโa man who is introduced to us while beating someone in the college auditorium over a student election.
And from this point, the cringe-fest begins. The first red flag is Mukti herself.
Despite her supposed maturity and academic grounding, she decides to confront Shankar and slap him for bullying students. His reaction? An incredibly creepy line as the police drag him away: โApna toh roz ka hai, par sundar ladki roz kaha milti hai.
โ To make things worse, the policeman actually smiles. Shankar then grabs her hand, asks her to slap him again, and Muktiโฆ smiles back.
This moment sets the tone: abuse is flirtation, therapy is a joke, and boundaries are nonexistent. Determined to prove her thesis, Mukti convinces Shankar to participate in her experiment. Shankar warns her he might fall in love with her, and her responseโโTum pyaar samajh ke kar lena, main kaam samajh ke kar lungiโโis shockingly childish for a woman pursuing a PhD.
She exploits Shankarโs emotional vulnerability in the name of research, confusing his affection with โprogress. โ What follows is the most bizarre version of โI can fix himโ ever put on screen.
Mukti mistakes Shankarโs obsession for improvement, records his emotions without any actual therapeutic process, and then takes him before two professors to โproveโ anger can be cured. When Shankar rushes to a brawl at a bus station mid-evaluation, her thesis collapses instantly. And yet, Mukti still refuses to accept failure.
ALSO READ | Amid Sooryavanshi and 83, a small OTT series emerged as the best of 2021: 25 Years of Indian Cinema Things get worse when, at the bus station, Shankar beats up a driver and a conductor. Mukti responds by asking them to slap him to โhelpโ her experiment.
Shankar then demands physical intimacy from Mukti in exchange for taking the slap. In the most ethically bankrupt scene of the film, Mukti agrees and takes him to a hotel room.
At this point, psychology, ethics, and logic have left the chat. Story continues below this ad Shankar later pretends he has changed so Muktiโs thesis gets validated, and she buys it.
Their relationship grows more toxic, but Mukti continues enabling him. When her childhood friend visits, she chooses not to introduce Shankarโbut then absurdly invites him to meet her parents, a move that in any normal world signals romantic interest.
The primary issue in the film is not just Shankarโs behaviourโitโs Muktiโs complete lack of agency and common sense. She knows heโs unstable, yet she keeps leading him on, dragging him through a toxic relationship to justify her academic experiment.
Shankarโs outbursts are excused, romanticised, and even rewarded. It takes Muktiโs father to finally call the police.
But the film turns this moment into an emotional monologue by Shankarโs father (Prakash Raj), who dies in a tragic accident right after apologising. The absurdity peaks when Shankarโnow grievingโreturns to curse Mukti, announces his fatherโs death, and vanishes.
Mukti spirals. She breaks her marriage, becomes an alcoholic, and eventually marries the man she once left earlierโbecause her father asks her to and because of Shankarโs ridiculous curse about her future son.
This part defies all logic. Story continues below this ad By the finale, Shankar suddenly becomes an Air Force pilot (with the same anger issues intact) and dies heroically in war. The film closes with the line: โHumari generation aakhri hogi jo pyaar karne ki himmat ki hogi.
โ Instead of critiquing toxic masculinity, the film ends up worshipping it. This could have been an antidote to the โAnimalโ era. This could have been a film that exposed toxic alpha behaviour instead of celebrating it.
But instead, it glorifies both Shankarโs aggression and Muktiโs poor decision-making. Did we like the acting? Absolutely. Prakash Raj, especially, leaves an impact.
But the story? A complete letdown. This film had the chance to dismantle a destructive trope.
Instead, it reinforces it. And the biggest disappointment is watching a female psychologist reduced to a punchline, made to deliver lines like: โAise ladke, ladki ko shaadi ke jode mein dekhkar shant ho jaate hain. โ Maโam, you turned psychologists into a joke.


